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Overcoming Sexual Insecurities
When Penis Size Becomes a Relationship Obsession: Navigating Insecurity and Intimacy Nancy R. writes: “My boyfriend's penis is small, the smallest I have been with, we measured it and it's only four inches long, but to me it doesn't mean anything. I love him, not just his penis. But his obsession with bringing up his size every time we have sex is frustrating and hurting our relationship. What can be done in this situation to preserve our relationship?”

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Pleasure Techniques Guide
Illustration showing pelvic floor exercise and intimacy concepts for Pompoir
In the realm of intimate practices, some techniques stand out for their history, subtlety, and the unique way they foster connection between partners. Pompoir, sometimes referred to as the “vaginal yoga” or “yoni control,” is one such practice. Rooted in tradition yet relevant today, it offers both men and women a pathway to heightened pleasure, intimacy, and awareness of the body.

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Mind & Body

Jar of pink watermelon sugar scrub with fresh watermelon slices and wooden spoon on a pale background.
A step-by-step guide to creating a refreshing watermelon sugar scrub—recipes, safety tips for intimate areas (breasts, mons pubis, outer vulva, buttocks), storage advice, and variations for different skin needs.
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Diet culture, a system of beliefs that values a certain body weight and shape, often equates thinness with health. This article explores when the pursuit of wellness crosses into a form of social pressure that can negatively impact body image and our relationship with food.
Abstract image with soft, layered shapes representing gentle skincare for sensitive vulvar skin.
The skin of the vulva is unique and requires a different approach than the rest of our body. Learn the essentials of gentle, effective vulvar skincare with our practical, straightforward guide.
Woman practicing body scan meditation while lying peacefully on a mat.
In the constant flow of daily life, it’s common to feel disconnected from our physical selves. The body scan meditation is a foundational mindfulness practice designed to rebuild this connection, offering a structured way to pay attention to your body and cultivate calm.
A collage showing diverse women of different sizes and backgrounds enjoying healthy activities and food.
Questioning restrictive eating habits.
Diet culture, a system of beliefs that values a certain body weight and shape, often equates thinness with health. This article explores when the pursuit of wellness crosses into a form of social pressure that can negatively impact body image and our relationship with food.
Abstract image with soft, layered shapes representing gentle skincare for sensitive vulvar skin.
Simple, gentle vulvar care.
The skin of the vulva is unique and requires a different approach than the rest of our body. Learn the essentials of gentle, effective vulvar skincare with our practical, straightforward guide.
Woman practicing body scan meditation while lying peacefully on a mat.
A Guide to Mindfulness
In the constant flow of daily life, it’s common to feel disconnected from our physical selves. The body scan meditation is a foundational mindfulness practice designed to rebuild this connection, offering a structured way to pay attention to your body and cultivate calm.

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Facts vs. Fiction
Separating fact from fiction about menopause is key to navigating this life stage with confidence. This article debunks 10 common myths.
Overcoming Sexual Insecurities

When Penis Size Becomes a Relationship Obsession: Navigating Insecurity and Intimacy

Constant worry about penis size can harm intimacy, but couples can navigate it with empathy, communication, and practical strategies.
Overcoming Sexual Insecurities
Constant worry about penis size can harm intimacy, but couples can navigate it with empathy, communication, and practical strategies.


Opinion & Stories

When Words Became Our Lifeline: How Honest Communication Saved My Relationship

I never thought the thing that could have ended my relationship would also be the thing that saved it: talking. Not casual “how was your day?” chatter, but honest, sometimes uncomfortable, full-heart…
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Community Voices
Imagination's Cultural Blueprints
We often treat creativity as a universal mystery, but what if it's a skill shaped by our cultural environment? From the disciplined artisan in Japan…
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Community Voices

Questioning restrictive eating habits.
Diet culture, a system of beliefs that values a certain body weight and shape, often equates thinness with health. This article explores when the pur…
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Community Voices

A world of traditions and wellness.
Explore how different cultures view and treat vaginal health, from ancient herbal remedies to modern medicine.
Emma Sterling contributor to Vagina Institute
Emma Sterling

Practical Period Comfort Tips
Gentle, proven strategies—heat, movement, nourishing food, sleep habits, and the right products—to help you feel more at ease throughout your cycle. Simple adjustments that add up to real relief.

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Vaginal Drying Practices
A neutral, factual look at the practice often called “vaginal drying” or “dry sex”: what it is, why it persists in some communities, common methods and substances used, and the health and social considerations surrounding it.
Silhouette of a woman’s lower torso with a plume of smoke rising — conceptual photo for an editorial on strange body practices.
Vaginal Smoking Explained
A viral oddity and a risky stunt collide: some women are reportedly drawing cigarette smoke into the vagina and expelling it, claiming a nicotine buzz. Medical experts warn the practice is potentially harmful — here’s what we know.

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