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In the realm of intimate practices, some techniques stand out for their history, subtlety, and the unique way they foster connection between partners. Pompoir, sometimes referred to as the “vaginal yoga” or “yoni control,” is one such practice. Rooted in tradition yet relevant today, it offers both men and women a pathway to heightened pleasure, intimacy, and awareness of the body.
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